The 1st Philippines Homeschool Fair by HAPI

Last May 21, we attended the very 1st Philippines Homeschool Fair by HAPI or Homeschool Association of the Philippine Islands. It was an exciting day for us as our two daughters are performing in the talent showcase. I was also looking forward to meeting more homeschool families and watching their talented children. Online casino Ireland. ###

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We watched so many homeschoolers show their talents in music and dance. We renewed friendships with fellow homeschool moms that we haven’t seen for awhile and got to meet other families as well. It is encouraging to see the number of homeschoolers that attended the fair.

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We were in awe of the various projects that the homeschooler exhibited. We didn’t participate in the exhibit because we felt that the talent show was enough for us. After seeing the other children’s projects, my kids were challenged to create their own projects for next year’s exhibit.

And for their participation, they each received a beautiful Certificate of Commendation.

Thanks to HAPI for spearheading this very organized homeschool event.

“Why Are You Homeschooling?” and Other Tiring Questions

When our family and friends find out for the first time that we are homeschooling, I can already tell that there will be a barrage of questions. Questions like

Why are you doing that?”

Why are you keeping your kids at home?”

Why are you overprotecting them?”

Is it cheaper to homeschool?” implying that we don’t have enough resources to send them to school.

So many questions which make us feel as if we need to explain our decision to them.

Consider this, when people ask you “Why?”, they are asking you to explain or to defend your decision.

Before doing so, stop and think about the person asking:

Is it worth my time and effort to explain my decision to this person?”

Does this person deserve an explanation?”

What is his motive in asking me to explain?”

Most of the time, I’d see that the person asking is not really interested in the answer to the question. Some are ready to debate with me, trying to prove something. Some have the feeling that I may be critical of parents who send their kids to regular school. Some just want something to talk about and pass on to others (tsismis). When I see this, I don’t even bother to answer the questions.

The people with whom we should take the time to talk about homeschooling are those who are really interested in the welfare of our children such as the grandparents, aunts, uncles and other concerned relatives. Even after tons of explanation, most people still won’t understand it. After years of homeschooling, I learned not to care as much anymore if people understand our lifestyle or not. However, now that we’ve been doing this for eight years, my relatives are the first to praise our children and to announce to people that they are homeschooled.

I also explain as much as I can to parents who are considering to homeschool their children.

So don’t tire yourself out with explanations to every other person that asks you “Why this?” or “Why that?”. Not everyone is really interested in our answer.

Christian Album Review: Robert Pierre

Here’s a first for me here on Beyond The Silver and The Gold, I have the opportunity to review four new songs by Christian artist, Robert Pierre. This multi-talented artist is a songwriter, singer, performer and an honors student to boot! Robert is a teenager that has dedicated his life to the Lord through his songs that are geared towards teenagers.

rp_noisetradeep_cov_240x240 This is the first time I’ve listened to his songs and I thoroughly enjoyed them all. His songs are upbeat, easy to sing along with a Biblical message for teens and young adults. I’m pretty sure that youth groups in churches will enjoy these uplifting and encouraging songs. You can also listen and download for free his four new songs from NoiseTrade.

 

Below are the song titles with lyrics:

1.  Jesus:  http://www.songlyrics.com/robert-pierre/jesus-lyrics/

Here, Robert sings about Jesus as the only One he can count on and pray to when things in life go wrong. “Any desperate day, one word I can pray, all I know to say – JESUS.”

2.  You Hold Me Now:  http://www.songlyrics.com/robert-pierre/you-hold-me-now-lyrics/

A beautiful worship song about God. “No weeping, no hurt or pain, no suffering, you hold me now.”

3.  Breaking My Heart:  http://www.songlyrics.com/robert-pierre/breaking-my-heart-lyrics/

At first reading, it’s easy to assume that the title may mean getting his heart broken by a girl. On the contrary, Robert sings about getting his heart broken by God and how it is a beautiful it is. “Breaking my heart a little more everyday. I love how You are breaking my heart in a beautiful way.”

4.  Identity: http://www.songlyrics.com/robert-pierre/identity-lyrics/

Of the four songs, this is my favorite – Identity. “That’s who I am – forgiven and set free. I’ve got nothing to hide. I know my identity.” This is the perfect song for all those Christian teens dealing with peer pressure. Through this song, they’ll learn and have the courage to stand for their faith and not give in to peer pressure.

All four songs are included in his new album “I’m All In” that is scheduled for release this summer.

Here’s how to download the songs from NoiseTrade:

1.  CLICK this link:  https://www.noisetrade.com/robertpierre#

2.  Once on NoiseTrade, you simply click the Robert Pierre EP image to open the online player. You will see the four songs that you can listen to online or download. Don’t worry, it’s completely legal.

3. To download all four songs for FREE to have on your own computer or ipod, NoiseTrade.com provides that downloadable zip file of the 4 songs when you enter your email address, postal code & click NEXT (just under the online player).  After you click NEXT, NoiseTrade will email you a link that you can quickly click to have the 4 songs downloaded.

To get to know Robert Pierre better, you can visit him on Facebook here.

Disclosure: I will receive a complimentary CD in exchange for this review.


It is time for a FIRST Wild Card Tour book review! If you wish to join the FIRST blog alliance, just click the button. We are a group of reviewers who tour Christian books. A Wild Card post includes a brief bio of the author and a full chapter from each book toured. The reason it is called a FIRST Wild Card Tour is that you never know if the book will be fiction, non~fiction, for young, or for old...or for somewhere in between! Enjoy your free peek into the book!


You never know when I might play a wild card on you!


Today's Wild Card author is:


and the book:

Tyndale House Publishers, Inc.; Reprint edition (April 25, 2011)
***Special thanks to Audra Jennings, Senior Media Specialist, The B&B Media Group for sending me a review copy.***

ABOUT THE AUTHOR:



Randy Singer is a critically acclaimed author and veteran trial attorney. He has penned 10 legal thrillers, including his award-winning debut novel, Directed Verdict. Randy runs his own law practice and has been named to Virginia Business magazine's select list of "Legal Elite" litigation attorneys. In addition to his law practice and writing, Randy serves as teaching pastor for Trinity Church in Virginia Beach, Virginia. He calls it his "Jekyll and Hyde thing"—part lawyer, part pastor. He also teaches classes in advocacy and civil litigation at Regent Law School and, through his church, is involved with ministry opportunities in India. He and his wife, Rhonda, live in Virginia Beach. They have two grown children.


Visit the author's website.

SHORT BOOK DESCRIPTION:


Clark Shealy is a bail bondsman with the ultimate bounty on the line: his wife's life. He has forty-eight hours to find an Indian professor in possession of the Abacus Algorithm—an equation so powerful it could crack all Internet encryption.


Four years later, law student Jamie Brock is working in legal aid when a routine case takes a vicious twist: she and two colleagues learn that their clients, members of the witness protection program, are accused of defrauding the government and have the encrypted algorithm in their possession. After a life-changing trip to the professor's church in India, the couple also has the key to decode it.

Now they're on the run from federal agents and the Chinese mafia, who will do anything to get the algorithm. Caught in the middle, Jamie and her friends must protect their clients if they want to survive long enough to graduate.

An adrenaline-laced thrill ride, this retelling of one of Randy Singer's most critically acclaimed novels takes readers from the streets of Las Vegas to the halls of the American justice system and the inner sanctum of the growing church in India with all the trademark twists, turns, and the legal intrigue his fans have come to expect.




Product Details:

List Price: $13.99
Paperback: 432 pages
Publisher: Tyndale House Publishers, Inc.; Reprint edition (April 25, 2011)
Language: English
ISBN-10: 1414335695
ISBN-13: 978-1414335698

AND NOW...THE FIRST CHAPTER:

MONDAY, AUGUST 9

THE LONGEST THREE DAYS of Clark Shealy’s life began with an expired registration sticker.

That was Clark’s first clue, the reason he followed the jet-black Cadillac Escalade ESV yesterday. The reason he phoned his wife, his partner in both marriage and crime . . . well, not really crime but certainly the dark edge of legality. They were the Bonnie and Clyde of bounty hunters, of repo artists, of anything requiring sham credentials and bold-faced lies. Jessica’s quick search of DMV records, which led to a phone call to the title holder, a Los Angeles credit union, confirmed what Clark had already guessed. The owner wasn’t making payments. The credit union wanted to repo the vehicle but couldn’t find it. They were willing to pay.

“How much?” Clark asked Jessica.

“It’s not worth it,” she replied. “That’s not why you’re there.”
“Sure, honey. But just for grins, how much are we passing up?”
Jessica murmured something.

“You’re breaking up,” Clark said.

“They’d pay a third of Blue Book.”

“Which is?”

“About forty-eight four,” Jessica said softly.

“Love you, babe,” Clark replied, doing the math. Sixteen thousand dollars!
“Clark—”
He ended the call. She called back. He hit Ignore.

Sixteen thousand dollars! Sure, it wasn’t the main reason he had come to Vegas. But a little bonus couldn’t hurt.

Unfortunately, the vehicle came equipped with the latest in theft protection devices, an electronically coded key supplied to the owner. The engine transmitted an electronic message that had to match the code programmed into the key, or the car wouldn’t turn over.

Clark learned this the hard way during the dead hours of the desert night, at about two thirty. He had broken into the Cadillac, disabled the standard alarm system, removed the cover of the steering column, and hot-wired the vehicle. But without the right key, the car wouldn’t start. Clark knew immediately that he had triggered a remote alarm. Using his hacksaw, he quickly sawed deep into the steering column, disabling the vehicle, and then sprinted down the drive and across the road

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He heard a stream of cursing from the front steps of a nearby condo followed by the blast of a gun. To Clark’s trained ears, it sounded like a .350 Magnum, though he didn’t stay around long enough to confirm the make, model, and ATF serial number.

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Six hours later, Clark came back.

He bluffed his way past the security guard at the entrance of the gated community and drove his borrowed tow truck into the elegant brick parking lot rimmed by manicured hedges. He parked sideways, immediately behind the Cadillac. These condos, some of Vegas’s finest, probably went for more than a million bucks each.

The Caddy fit right in, screaming elegance and privilege—custom twenty-inch rims, beautiful leather interior, enough leg room for the Lakers’ starting five, digital readouts on the dash, and an onboard computer that allowed its owner to customize all power functions in the vehicle. The surround-sound system, of course, could rattle the windows on a car three blocks away. Cadillac had pimped this ride out fresh from the factory, making it the vehicle of choice for men like Mortavius Johnson, men who lived on the west side of Vegas and supplied “escorts” for the city’s biggest gamblers.

Clark speed-dialed 1 before he stepped out of the tow truck.
“This is stupid, Clark.”

“Good morning to you, too. Are you ready?”

“No.”
“All right. Let’s do it.” He slid the still-connected phone into a pocket of his coveralls. They were noticeably short, pulling at the crotch. He had bought the outfit on the spot from a mechanic at North Vegas Auto, the same garage where he borrowed the tow truck from the owner, a friend who had helped Clark in some prior repo schemes. A hundred and fifty bucks for the coveralls, complete with oil and grease stains. Clark had ripped off the name tag and rolled up the sleeves. It felt like junior high all over again, growing so fast the clothes couldn’t keep up with the boy.

He popped open the hood of the wrecker, smeared his fingers on some blackened oil grime, and rubbed a little grease on his forearms, with a dab to his face. He closed the hood and walked confidently to the front door of the condo, checking the paper in his hand as if looking for an address. He rang the bell.

Silence. . . . He rang it again.

Eventually, he heard heavy footsteps inside and then the clicking of a lock before the door slowly opened. Mortavius Johnson, looking like he had barely survived a rough night, filled the doorway. Clark was tall and slender—six-three, about one-ninety. But Mortavius was tall and bulky—a brooding presence who dwarfed Clark. He wore jeans and no shirt, exposing rock-solid pecs but also a good-size gut. He didn’t have a gun.
Clark glanced down at his paper while Mortavius surveyed him with bloodshot eyes.

“Are you Mortavius Johnson?”

“Yeah.”
“You call for a tow?”

Mortavius’s eyes narrowed suspiciously. The big man glanced at the pocket of Clark’s coveralls—no insignia—then around him at the tow truck. Clark had quickly spray-painted over the logo and wondered if Mortavius could tell.

Clark held his breath and considered his options. If the big man caught on, Clark would have to surprise Mortavius, Pearl Harbor–style, with a knee to the groin or a fist to the solar plexus. Even those blows would probably just stun the big man momentarily. Clark would sprint like a bandit to the tow truck, hoping Mortavius’s gun was more than arm’s length away. Clark might be able to outrun Mortavius, but not the man’s bullet.

“I left a message last night with the Cadillac dealer,” Mortavius said.
The Cadillac dealer. Clark was hoping for something a little more specific. “And the Cadillac dealer called me,” Clark said, loudly enough to be heard on the cell phone in his pocket. “You think they’ve got their own tow trucks at that place? It’s not like Caddies break down very often. If everybody could afford a Caddie, I’d go out of business.”
Clark smiled. Mortavius did not.

“What company you with?” he asked.

“Highway Auto Service,” Clark responded, louder still. He pulled out the cell phone, surreptitiously hit the End button with a thumb, then held it out to Mortavius. “You want to call my office? Speed dial 1.”
Mortavius frowned. He still looked groggy. “I’ll get the keys,” he said.
He disappeared from the doorway, and Clark let out a breath. He speed-dialed Jessica again and put the phone back in his pocket. He glanced over his shoulder, then did a double take.

Give me a break!

Another tow truck was pulling past the security guard and heading toward Mortavius’s condo. Things were getting a little dicey.

“I left some papers in the truck you’ll need to sign,” Clark called into the condo. But as soon as the words left Clark’s mouth, Mortavius reappeared in the doorway, keys in hand.

Unfortunately, he glanced past Clark, and his eyes locked on the other tow truck. A glint of understanding sparked, followed by a flash of anger. “Who sent you?” Mortavius demanded.

“I told you . . . the Cadillac place.”

“The Cadillac place,” Mortavius repeated sarcastically. “What Cadillac place?”

“Don’t remember. The name’s on the papers in my truck.”
Mortavius took a menacing step forward, and Clark felt the fear crawl up his neck. His fake sheriff’s ID was in the tow truck along with his gun. He was running out of options.

“Who sent you?” Mortavius demanded.

Clark stiffened, ready to dodge the big man’s blows. In that instant, Clark thought about the dental work the last incident like this had required. Jessica would shoot him—it wasn’t in the budget.
A hand shot out, and Clark ducked. He lunged forward and brought his knee up with all his might. But the other man was quick, and the knee hit rock-solid thigh, not groin. Clark felt himself being jerked by his collar into the foyer, the way a dog might be yanked inside by an angry owner. Before he could land a blow, Clark was up against the wall, Mortavius in his face, a knife poised against Clark’s stomach.

Where did that come from?

Mortavius kicked the door shut. “Talk fast, con man,” he hissed. “Intruders break into my home, I slice ’em up in self-defense.”
“I’m a deputy sheriff for Orange County, California,” Clark gasped. He tried to sound official, hoping that even Mortavius might think twice before killing a law enforcement officer. “In off hours, I repo vehicles.” He felt the point of the knife pressing against his gut, just below his navel, the perfect spot to start a vivisection.
“But you can keep yours,” Clark continued, talking fast. “I’m only authorized to repo if there’s no breach of the peace. Looks like this situation might not qualify.”

Mortavius inched closer. He shifted his grip from Clark’s collar to his neck, pinning Clark against the wall. “You try to gank my ride at night, then show up the next morning to tow it?”

“Something like that,” Clark admitted. The words came out whispered for lack of air.

“That takes guts,” Mortavius responded. A look that might have passed for admiration flashed across the dark eyes. “But no brains.”
“I’ve got a deal,” Clark whispered, frantic now for breath. His world was starting to cave in, stars and pyrotechnics clouding his vision.
The doorbell rang.

“Let’s hear it,” Mortavius said quietly, relaxing his stranglehold just enough so Clark could breathe.

“They’re paying me six Gs for the car,” Clark explained rapidly. He was thinking just clearly enough to fudge the numbers. “They know where you are now because I called them yesterday. Even if you kill me—” saying the words made Clark shudder a little, especially since Mortavius didn’t flinch—“they’re going to find the car. You let me tow it today and get it fixed. I’ll wire four thousand bucks into your bank account before I leave the Cadillac place. I make two thousand, and you’ve got four thousand for a down payment on your next set of wheels.”
The doorbell rang again, and Mortavius furrowed his brow. “Five Gs,” he said, scowling.

“Forty-five hundred,” Clark countered, “I’ve got a wife and—”
Ughh . . . Clark felt the wind flee his lungs as Mortavius slammed him against the wall. Pain shot from the back of his skull where it bounced off the drywall, probably leaving a dent.

“Five,” Mortavius snarled.

Clark nodded quickly.

The big man released Clark, answered the door, and chased away the other tow truck driver, explaining that there had been a mistake. As Mortavius and Clark finished negotiating deal points, Clark had another brilliant idea.

“Have you got any friends who aren’t making their payments?” he asked. “I could cut them in on the same type of deal. Say . . . fifty-fifty on the repo reward—they could use their cuts as down payments to trade up.”

“Get out of here before I hurt you,” Mortavius said.

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Clark glanced at his watch as he left the parking lot. He had less than two hours to return the tow truck and make it to the plastic surgeon’s office. He speed-dialed Jessica.

“Highway Auto Service,” she responded.

“It didn’t work,” Clark said. “I got busted.”
“You okay?”

He loved hearing the concern in her voice. He hesitated a second, then, “Not a scratch on me.”

“I told you it was a dumb idea,” Jessica said, though she sounded more relieved than upset. “You never listen. Clark Shealy knows it all.”
And he wasn’t listening now. Instead, he was doing the math again in his head. Sixteen thousand, minus Mortavius’s cut and the repair bill, would leave about ten. He thought about the logistics of making the wire transfers into accounts that Jessica wouldn’t know about.
Pulling a con on pimps like Mortavius was one thing. Getting one by Jessica was quite another.



It is time for a FIRST Wild Card Tour book review! If you wish to join the FIRST blog alliance, just click the button. We are a group of reviewers who tour Christian books. A Wild Card post includes a brief bio of the author and a full chapter from each book toured. The reason it is called a FIRST Wild Card Tour is that you never know if the book will be fiction, non~fiction, for young, or for old...or for somewhere in between! Enjoy your free peek into the book!


You never know when I might play a wild card on you!


Today's Wild Card author is:


and the book:

David C. Cook (April 1, 2011)
***Special thanks to Karen Davis, Assistant Media Specialist, The B&B Media Group for sending me a review copy.***

ABOUT THE AUTHOR:


Arleta Richardson grew up in a Chicago hotel under her grandmother’s care. As they sat overlooking the shores of Lake Michigan, her grandmother shared memories of her childhood on a Michigan farm. These treasured family stories became the basis for the Grandma’s Attic Series.

SHORT BOOK DESCRIPTION:


Remember when you were a child, when the entire world was new, and the smallest object a thing of wonder? Arleta Richardson remembered: the funny wearable wire contraption hidden in the dusty attic, the century-old schoolchild’s slate that belonged to Grandma, an ancient trunk filled with quilt pieces—each with its own special story—and the button basket, a miracle of mysteries. But best of all she remembered her remarkable grandmother who made magic of all she touched, bringing the past alive as only a born storyteller could.


So step inside the attic of Richardson’s grandmother. These stories will keep you laughing while teaching you valuable lessons. These marvelous tales faithfully recalled for the delight of young and old alike are a touchstone to another day when life was simpler, perhaps richer, and when the treasures of family life and love were passed from generation to generation by a child’s questions and the legends that followed enlarged our faith. These timeless stories were originally released in 1974 and then revised in 1999. They are being re-released with new artwork that will appeal to a new generation of girls.



Product Details:

In Grandma's Attic:

List Price: $6.99
Reading level: Ages 9-12
Paperback: 144 pages
Publisher: David C. Cook (April 1, 2011)
Language: English
ISBN-10: 0781403790
ISBN-13: 978-0781403795






More Stories from Grandma's Attic:

List Price: $6.99
Reading level: Ages 9-12
Paperback: 144 pages
Publisher: David C. Cook; 3 edition (April 1, 2011)
Language: English
ISBN-10: 9780781403801
ISBN-13: 978-0781403801
ASIN: 0781403804


AND NOW...THE FIRST CHAPTER:

In Grandma’s Attic – Chapter 1


Pride Goes Before a Fall

“Grandma, what is this?”


Grandma looked up from her work. “Good lands, child, where did you find that?”


“In the attic,” I replied. “What is it, Grandma?”


Grandma chuckled and answered, “That’s a hoop. The kind that ladies wore under their skirts when I was a little girl.”


“Did you ever wear one, Grandma?” I asked.


Grandma laughed. “Indeed I did,” she said. “In fact, I wore that very one.”


Here, I decided, must be a story. I pulled up the footstool and prepared to listen. Grandma looked at the old hoop fondly.


“I only wore it once,” she began. “But I kept it to remind me how painful pride can be.”


I was about eight years old when that hoop came into my life. For months I had been begging Ma to let me have a hoopskirt like the big girls wore. Of course that was out of the question. What would a little girl, not even out of calicoes, be doing with a hoopskirt? Nevertheless, I could envision myself walking haughtily to school with the hoopskirt and all the girls watching enviously as I took my seat in the front of the room.


This dream was shared by my best friend and seatmate, Sarah Jane. Together we spent many hours picturing ourselves as fashionable young ladies in ruffles and petticoats. But try as we would, we could not come up with a single plan for getting a hoopskirt of our very own.


Finally, one day in early spring, Sarah Jane met me at the school grounds with exciting news. An older cousin had come to their house to visit, and she had two old hoops that she didn’t want any longer. Sarah Jane and I could have them to play with, she said. Play with, indeed! Little did that cousin know that we didn’t want to play with them. Here was the answer to our dreams. All day, under cover of our books, Sarah Jane and I planned how we would wear those hoops to church on Sunday.


There was a small problem: How would I get that hoop into the house without Ma knowing about it? And how could either of us get out of the house with them on without anyone seeing us? It was finally decided that I would stop by Sarah Jane’s house on Sunday morning. We would have some excuse for walking to church, and after her family had left, we would put on our hoops and prepare to make a grand entrance at the church.


“Be sure to wear your fullest skirt,” Sarah Jane reminded me. “And be here early. They’re all sure to look at us this Sunday!”


If we had only known how true that would be! But of course, we were happily unaware of the disaster that lay ahead.


Sunday morning came at last, and I astonished my family by the speed with which I finished my chores and was ready to leave for church.


“I’m going with Sarah Jane this morning,” I announced, and set out quickly before anyone could protest.


All went according to plan. Sarah Jane’s family went on in the buggy, cautioning us to hurry and not be late for service. We did have a bit of trouble fastening the hoops around our waists and getting our skirts pulled down to cover them. But when we were finally ready, we agreed that there could not be two finer-looking young ladies in the county than us.


Quickly we set out for church, our hoopskirts swinging as we walked. Everyone had gone in when we arrived, so we were assured the grand entry we desired. Proudly, with small noses tipped up, we sauntered to the front of the church and took our seats.


Alas! No one had ever told us the hazards of sitting down in a hoopskirt without careful practice! The gasps we heard were not of admiration as we had anticipated—far from it! For when we sat down, those dreadful hoops flew straight up in the air! Our skirts covered our faces, and the startled minister was treated to the sight of two pairs of white pantalets and flying petticoats.


Sarah Jane and I were too startled to know how to disentangle ourselves, but our mothers were not. Ma quickly snatched me from the seat and marched me out the door.


The trip home was a silent one. My dread grew with each step. What terrible punishment would I receive at the hands of an embarrassed and upset parent? Although I didn’t dare look at her, I knew she was upset because she was shaking. It was to be many years before I learned that Ma was shaking from laughter, and not from anger!


Nevertheless, punishment was in order. My Sunday afternoon was spent with the big Bible and Pa’s concordance. My task was to copy each verse I could find that had to do with being proud. That day I was a sorry little girl who learned a lesson about pride going before a fall.


“And you were never proud again, Grandma?” I asked after she finished the story.


Grandma thought soberly for a moment. “Yes,” she replied. “I was proud again. Many times. It was not until I was a young lady and the Lord saved me that I had the pride taken from my heart. But many times when I am tempted to be proud, I remember that horrid hoopskirt and decide that a proud heart is an abomination to the Lord!”


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More Stories From Grandma’s Attic

Chapter 1


The Nuisance in Ma’s Kitchen

When Grandma called from the backyard, I knew I was in for it. She was using her would-you-look-at-this voice, which usually meant I was responsible for something.


“What, Grandma?” I asked once I reached the spot where she was hanging up the washing.


“Would you look at this?” she asked. “I just went into the kitchen for more clothespins and came back out to find this.”


I looked where she was pointing. One of my kittens had crawled into the clothes basket and lay sound asleep on a clean sheet.


“If you’re going to have kittens around the house, you’ll have to keep an eye on them. Otherwise leave them in the barn where they belong. It’s hard enough to wash sheets once without doing them over again.”


Grandma headed toward the house with the soiled sheet, and I took the kitten back to the barn. But I didn’t agree that it belonged there. I would much rather have had the whole family of kittens in the house with me. Later I mentioned this to Grandma.


“I know,” she said. “I felt the same way when I was your age. If it had been up to me, I would have moved every animal on the place into the house every time it rained or snowed.”


“Didn’t your folks let any pets in the house?” I asked.


“Most of our animals weren’t pets,” Grandma admitted. “But there were a few times when they were allowed in. If an animal needed special care, it stayed in the kitchen. I really enjoyed those times, especially if it was one I could help with.”


“Tell me about one,” I said, encouraging her to tell me another story about her childhood.


“I remember one cold spring,” she began, “when Pa came in from the barn carrying a tiny goat.”


“I’m not sure we can save this one.” Pa held the baby goat up for us to see. “The nanny had twins last night, and she’ll only let one come near her. I’m afraid this one’s almost gone.”


Ma agreed and hurried to find an old blanket and a box for a bed. She opened the oven door, put the box on it, and gently took the little goat and laid it on the blanket. It didn’t move at all. It just lay there, barely breathing.


“Oh, Ma,” I said. “Do you think it will live? Shouldn’t we give it something to eat?”


“It’s too weak to eat right now,” Ma replied. “Let it rest and get warm. Then we’ll try to feed it.”


Fortunately it was Saturday, and I didn’t have to go to school. I sat on the floor next to the oven and watched the goat. Sometimes it seemed as though it had stopped breathing, and I would call Ma to look.


“It’s still alive,” she assured me. “It just isn’t strong enough to move yet. You wait there and watch if you want to, but don’t call me again unless it opens its eyes.”


When Pa and my brothers came in for dinner, Reuben stopped and looked down at the tiny animal. “Doesn’t look like much, does it?”


I burst into tears. “It does so!” I howled. “It looks just fine! Ma says it’s going to open its eyes. Don’t discourage it!”


Reuben backed off in surprise, and Pa came over to comfort me. “Now, Reuben wasn’t trying to harm that goat. He just meant that it doesn’t … look like a whole lot.”


I started to cry again, and Ma tried to soothe me. “Crying isn’t going to help that goat one bit,” she said. “When it gets stronger, it will want something to eat. I’ll put some milk on to heat while we have dinner.”


I couldn’t leave my post long enough to go to the table, so Ma let me hold my plate in my lap. I ate dinner watching the goat. Suddenly it quivered and opened its mouth. “It’s moving, Ma!” I shouted. “You’d better bring the milk!”


Ma soaked a rag in the milk, and I held it while the little goat sucked it greedily. By the time it had fallen asleep again, I was convinced that it would be just fine.


And it was! By evening the little goat was standing on its wobbly legs and began to baa loudly for more to eat. “Pa, maybe you’d better bring its box into my room,” I suggested at bedtime.


“Whatever for?” Pa asked. “It will keep warm right here by the stove. We’ll look after it during the night. Don’t worry.”


“And we aren’t bringing your bed out here,” Ma added, anticipating my next suggestion. “You’ll have enough to do, watching that goat during the day.”


Of course Ma was right. As the goat got stronger, he began to look for things to do. At first he was content to grab anything within reach and pull it. Dish towels, apron strings, and tablecloth corners all fascinated him. I kept busy trying to move things out of his way.


From the beginning the little goat took a special liking to Ma, but she was not flattered. “I can’t move six inches in this kitchen without stumbling over that animal,” she sputtered. “He can be sound asleep in his box one minute and sitting on my feet the next. I don’t know how much longer I can tolerate him in here.”


As it turned out, it wasn’t much longer. The next Monday, Ma prepared to do the washing in the washtub Pa had placed on two chairs near the woodpile. Ma always soaked the clothes in cold water first, then transferred them to the boiler on the stove.


I was in my room when I heard her shouting, “Now you put that down! Come back here!”


I ran to the kitchen door and watched as the goat circled the table with one of Pa’s shirts in his mouth. Ma was right behind him, but he managed to stay a few feet ahead of her.


“Step on the shirt, Ma!” I shouted as I ran into the room. “Then he’ll have to stop!”


I started around the table the other way, hoping to head him off. But the goat seemed to realize that he was outnumbered, for he suddenly turned and ran toward the chairs that held the washtub.


“Oh, no!” Ma cried. “Not that way!”


But it was too late! Tub, water, and clothes splashed to the floor. The goat danced stiff-legged through the soggy mess with a surprised look on his face.


“That’s enough!” Ma said. “I’ve had all I need of that goat. Take him out and tie him in the yard, Mabel. Then bring me the mop, please.”


I knew better than to say anything, but I was worried about what would happen to the goat. If he couldn’t come back in the kitchen, where would he sleep?


Pa had the answer to that. “He’ll go to the barn tonight.”


“But, Pa,” I protested, “he’s too little to sleep in the barn. Besides, he’ll think we don’t like him anymore!”


“He’ll think right,” Ma said. “He’s a menace, and he’s not staying in my kitchen another day.”


“But I like him,” I replied. “I feel sorry for him out there alone. If he has to sleep in the barn, let me go out and sleep with him!”


My two brothers looked at me in amazement.


“You?” Roy exclaimed. “You won’t even walk past the barn after dark, let alone go in!”


Everyone knew he was right. I had never been very brave about going outside after dark. But I was more concerned about the little goat than I was about myself.


“I don’t care,” I said stubbornly. “He’ll be scared out there, and he’s littler than I am.”


Ma didn’t say anything, probably because she thought I’d change my mind before dark. But I didn’t. When Pa started for the barn that evening, I was ready to go with him. Ma saw that I was determined, so she brought me a blanket.


“You’d better wrap up in this,” she said. “The hay is warm, but it’s pretty scratchy.”


I took the blanket and followed Pa and the goat out to the barn. The more I thought about the long, dark night, the less it seemed like a good idea, but I wasn’t going to give in or admit that I was afraid.


Pa found a good place for me to sleep. “This is nice and soft and out of the draft. You’ll be fine here.”


I rolled up in the blanket, hugging the goat close to me as I watched Pa check the animals. The light from the lantern cast long, scary shadows through the barn, and I thought about asking Pa if he would stay with me. I knew better, though, and all too soon he was ready to leave.


“Good night, Mabel. Sleep well,” he said as he closed the barn door behind him. I doubted that I would sleep at all. If it hadn’t been for the goat and my brothers who would laugh at me, I would have returned to the house at once. Instead I closed my eyes tightly and began to say my prayers. In a few moments the barn door opened, and Reuben’s voice called to me.


“Mabel,” he said, “it’s just me.” He came over to where I lay, and I saw that he had a blanket under his arm. “I thought I’d sleep out here tonight too. I haven’t slept in the barn for a long time. You don’t mind, do you?”


“Oh, no. That’s fine.” I turned over and fell asleep at once.


When I awoke in the morning, the goat and Reuben were both gone. Soon I found the goat curled up by his mother.


“Will you be sleeping in the barn again tonight?” Ma asked me at breakfast.


“No, I don’t think so,” I said. “I’ll take care of the goat during the day, but I guess his mother can watch him at night.”


Grandma laughed at the memory. “After I grew up, I told Reuben how grateful I was that he came out to stay with me. I wonder how my family ever put up with all my foolishness.”


Grandma went back into the house, and I wandered out to the barn to see the little kittens. I decided I wouldn’t be brave enough to spend the night there even if I had a big brother to keep me company!
MY THOUGHTS:

Since this is a children's book, I gave it to my 12 year old daughter to read. She enjoyed it so much that she spent two days just reading it. In the middle of her reading, she would pause and say, "Oh Mom, this is so nice. And it's affecting my heart. I think about what I do also, my attitude and I know I should obey the Lord more."

I, too, thoroughly appreciate these two books. It is a collection of stories shared by a granddaughter of her grandmother's childhood. It is wonderful to be taken back to a time where there were no TV's, no video games to distract children. But children found other ways to amuse themselves. Best of all, there is always a different lesson woven through the humorous stories. My 6 year old is always asking me to read it aloud to her and we usually end up laughing.

See You Soon, TOS Homeschool Crew!

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A few days ago, I wrote my last review for TOS Homeschool Crew for this year. My wonderful year of sailing with the Crew is about to end. The next ship with a new Crew is about to sail without me. I will certainly miss this Crew.

I am one of the very few international reviewers that they accept every year. Out of the 250 reviewers, less than 10 are located internationally. By that I mean, outside the US. So I am very, very blessed indeed to have been a reviewer for TOS Homeschool Crew for the second time.

As a member of the Crew, I received free homeschool materials to use for our homeschool. Admittedly, the physical products I received are few but I was almost always asked to review downloadable products or online materials. These have provided my children with a rich library of materials to use in their education.

But more than the products, I got to meet, virtually, so many homeschool moms and dads in the Crew. We have shared our lives and prayed for each other. Whenever there was a burden in our lives that we felt too heavy to carry on our own, we would share it in our forum and prayers and counsel would come immediately. This is what made our review team unique.

I thank Paul and Gena Suarez, publishers of The Old Schoolhouse Magazine, for creating the TOS Homeschool Crew. I am very, very thankful to our leader, Heidi Strawser, who gave me the very first opportunity to become a blogger reviewer. Kudos to Brenda Emmett for her tireless efforts in assigning the reviews to us and making sure that everyone submits our reviews. Thanks also to Tina Smith Brown, our group’s leader, for her support to me this year.

A few weeks ago, I told Guitar Babe that I’m considering stopping my reviews because it was taking up too much of my time. She said, “No, Mom! Look at how it has blessed our family. We have so many books and homeschool materials because of your reviews.”

So, no worries, despite not being a member of the TOS Homeschool Crew this coming year, I will still be reviewing homeschool materials, books and others on this blog.

I’m not saying “Goodbye!” to the TOS Homeschool Crew, I’m just saying “See you soon!” because I expect to be back on the Crew again a year from now, God willing.

Gabby Moms Review: Marriage Bundle – To Have and To Hold by Lorrie Flem

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Last Mother’s Day, in honor of the mothers in church, they prepared a video montage for us mothers. Every mom was honored with 3 pictures – a picture of when she was very young, a wedding picture and finally a current picture of the mother with her children. Some of the children are young, most are grown ups. As I was watching the video, my tears started to fall because I saw the faithfulness of God to families. By God’s grace, almost all the mothers in our church are still together with the man that they married. What a blessing!

This month I had the privilege to review Lorrie Flem’s Marriage Bundle - To Have and To Hold. Ms. Lorrie Flem is the Head Mom and publisher of Eternal Encouragement Magazine. A magazine that provides encouragement to Christian mothers. In her Marriage Bundle, she has compiled all her writings and audios about marriage and it is a lot!

The contents of this bundle are

2 Audios – 5R’s Session 2 – Rekindle, One Life to Live, One Man to Love

5 E-Books – Loving Your Knight in Shining Armor Even When He Doesn’t Shine, Roadmap to a Marvelous Marriage, Marriage Tidbits to Treasure, Quotes Not Quibbles, Marriage Report

7 E-Booklets – 31 Daily Biblical Prayers for Wives to Pray for Their Husbands, Encouragement Report, Don’t Settle, SHMILY, What God Says About Marriage, 75 Inexpensive Romantic Rut, It Happened One Afternoon

2 TEACH Magazine back issues –2001 Summer “Loving Your Husband”, 2009 Spring “Marriage Made Marvelous”

This whole bundle of products valued at over $100.00 will only cost us $39.95 for the electronic version, and $49.97 for the physical product to be shipped to you.

After reading most of this bundle and listening to the audios, I was reminded that though I am a mother, it is important that I should prioritize my husband and my marriage over motherhood. I’m sure many moms can relate especially if you have multiple children, But in this bundle, I learned many ways to prioritize hubby – one is to commit to pray for him daily using the 31 Daily Biblical Prayers for Husbands, another is to stop focusing on his mistakes and loving him for who he is, and to build walls around our marriage in order to protect it from the enemy’s flaming arrows.

I have been very encouraged by listening to Lorrie Flem’s audios as she speaks about honoring our husbands. She is very encouraging and has a gentle voice which is lovely to listen to. My favorite in this bundle is the 31 Daily Biblical Prayers and the story It Happened One Afternoon. If you are a wife who wants the best for her marriage, you would greatly benefit from the Marriage Bundle - To Have and To Hold by Lorrie Flem. Visit her website at www.eternalencouragement.com.

To read other reviews, please visit our blog The Gabby Moms.

Disclosure: I received this product for free in exchange for this review.

 

    TOS Homeschool Review: Wordy Qwerty

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    Wordy Qwerty is a reading and spelling software suitable for children in the 2nd and 3rd grade. It has 20 lessons teaching the spelling rules with 6 activities per lesson. The student is helped along with two characters, Qwerty and Midi, who gives the instructions. As the student begins, she will see this screen:

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    Here, Qwerty explains that Midi is creating a machine. In order to finish creating the machine, the student has to finish the lessons. This screen also shows the child’s progress. If the child has to redo a lesson, you can come back to this screen and choose which lesson and activity you want your child to do.

    I’ll describe the six activities followed with my comments as used by my Artsy Princess and Sunshine Princess. Since Artsy Princess has studied the spelling rules in the past, I wanted her to do this again for review. This was very easy for her. Sunshine Princess still does not read but is very interested because she sees it as a game.

    1. Patterns

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    The child will be asked to spell the words given through picture and audio then to pick which group of words it belongs to. Once this is done, the child can see a pattern to the group of words. From this, the spelling rule is can be concluded by the child and also given by the program.

    Artsy went through this patiently. She was bored but I can see that it also reminded her of the rules that she has studied previously.

    2. Karaoke

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    The spelling rule is taught through songs in the Karaoke activity. First the student will listen to the song, then she can sing along with the music while reading the lyrics on screen.

    Since we are a singing family, this is probably the most enjoyable for my kids. The songs that we have listened to so far are easy to follow and sing along. I find it’s much better to sing the rules rather than memorizing it.

    3. Recycler

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    Here is where the student sees / listens to rhyming words. The test is in choosing which word is correct or if both words are right. 

    This is the game, or rather, lesson that Sunshine very much likes. Although she can’t read it yet, she loves watching the drums roll, changing letters and watching where it goes. Artsy also enjoyed this activity.

    4. Pop-a-Word

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    This activity has a short statement that the student will read and listen to. After listening to the sentence, words will appear in balloons. The child has to choose and pop the balloon with the correct word. 

    What is necessary here is that the child can read fast because the words will go away if it is not popped.

    5. Write Stories

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    Here, the child will hear two statements per picture. The second statement then disappears and the child will have to type the sentence correctly.

    This was a bit hard for Sunshine because she doesn’t type well enough yet. But it’s not a problem for her following the sentence.  This was interesting because the stories are quite humorous.

    6. Read Stories

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    This last activity is for reading comprehension. There is a paragraph with blanks to be filled out. As the child reads the story and comes to the blanks, she chooses the correct word from the drop down list of three words. If the child chooses the wrong word, it will not allow the child to move on to the next blank.

    MY THOUGHTS:

    Wordy Qwerty by Talking Fingers is a sequel to their first software program, Read, Write and Type Learning System. I did not review the Read, Write and Type Learning System but did not find that a problem as I used this with my kids.

    I find the activities very entertaining as it also engages the children in every activity. I also did the program myself and actually did not find it boring. Before you let your child use this software, the child must be able to read, spell, type, and is able to comprehend short stories.

    Today’s children are bombarded with all sorts of visuals such as video games, TV shows, online games that it becomes a challenge for us to get them interested when it comes to studying their lessons. Wordy Qwerty is effective in teaching the children through their animated games and music.

    The Home Edition of Wordy Qwerty is available for only $35.00 and can be purchased through their website.

    Please check out our TOS Homeschool Crew blog for other reviews.

    Disclosure: I received this product for free as a member of the TOS Homeschool Crew in exchange for this review.

    TOS Homeschool Review: Mad Dog Math

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    Today, it is my pleasure to review Mad Dog Math – a downloadable software to help students memorize math facts.

    As many of us know, the foundation to higher Math is the memorization of math facts in four operations – addition, subtraction, multiplication and division. Without this foundation in math, where a person can answer a math fact without even thinking about it, it will be hard to progress to higher Math.

    Thus, Mad Dog Math presents the learning of Math facts in an easy and enjoyable manner. First, the character that helps them learn is Mad Dog. Mad Dog barks when he first meets you in greeting. Mad Dog is not a mad dog, but an adorable yellow dog that is non-threatening to the student. There are no talking teacher cartoons in this software, there is just Mad Dog, and all of the time he just barks. So it doesn’t feel like there is someone watching the student doing his work correctly.

    Mad Dog Math presents the math facts in four levels:

    Level 1 : Addition and Subtraction from 0 – 18

    Level 2 : Addition and Subtraction from 0 – 18 but with focus on 7 – 18

    Level 3 : Multiplication and Division from 0 – 12

    Level 4 : Challenge level making use of all operations

    Each level is further divided into sub-levels or fact families.

    When a student begins, the student can choose to be timed starting with two minutes, one minute, 30 seconds or not to be timed at all. When the student passes each virtual worksheet consisting of 20 – 24 questions with a maximum of two mistakes, Mad Dog moves the student to the next fact family. Once the student completes all virtual worksheets in their chosen time limit, he/she receives a club sticker. Every level is designed to be used yearly. For mastery, the student should practice their Math Drills for 10 minutes daily using Mad Dog Math.

    MY THOUGHTS;

    When Guitar Babe was my only student, I taught her Math the same way I was taught in school – worksheets, math facts memorization and flash cards. As much as it has worked for me, when I asked my children to memorize their multiplication table, it seemed like such a difficult task for them. I can see that they were bored memorizing math facts which added to the difficulty. As I continued to homeschool her with the addition of her siblings, I learned that there are so many creative ways to teach Math.

    I like Mad Dog Math for my children because:

    • It is loaded onto my computer with very nice graphics. Once you have downloaded the software, you don’t need an internet connection to use it.
    • The graphics are interesting enough to catch the younger child’s attention while the drills can be adjusted according to the skill level of the student. It can be timed providing further challenge for older students.
    • It keeps a record of every child’s progress so that a student can continue with her drills where she has previously left off. It also allows mom to check on each child’s progress.
    • You only need to log in a student with her first name without a need for passwords. This certainly makes things easy for a mom with multiple children. And yes, you can use this one software for multiple children.
    • Using it is intuitive. When you first log in, it will take you to the instructions page which is short and easy to understand. It is very easy to use so I can let my children use it on their own.
    • The Mad Dog Math downloadable software can be purchased for only $19.99 for one year use, $29.99 for two years use, and $39.00 for a perpetual license.
      To know more about Mad Dog Math and it’s creator, veteran educator Julie Kotoff, go here.
      You can also try out this software for FREE.
      Check out what my TOS Crewmates thought of Mad Dog Math here.

    Disclosure: I received this product for free as a member of the TOS Homeschool Crew in exchange for my review.

    TOS Crew Review: GoTrybe: Kids Fitness, Wellness, Nutrition and Motivation

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    One of the problems that we face as homeschoolers, is that we are at home most of the time, sitting around. We almost never have any physical activity that is necessary for our bodies to be healthy. Most of the time we are either studying, using the computer or watching TV for relaxation. We don’t have a car so going to the park regularly is not a viable option for us. I would have loved to enroll each of them in sports activities but monthly lessons are just too expensive for us.

    This has left me and my children overweight and unfit. It is a problem for us to try and find something to keep everybody active. Amazingly, we at the TOS Crew have been given the opportunity to use and review GOTRYBE.COM

    GO get active, TRY something new, BE at your best!

    GoTrybe is an organization that encourages kids of all ages to get active and be fit. The online materials include various workouts with choices for dance, sports, flexibility & core. Along with this are daily video snippets for nutrition knowledge (comes with a quiz), motivation - which has one of the children featured in the workout talking about GoTrybe, and wellness - which also has a daily snippet featuring different topics about our health.  GoTrybe has programs available for different age groups:

    • ZooDoos is for the elementary ages, K-5th grade
    • Trybe180 is for middle school ages, 6th-8th grade
    • NexTrybe is for high school ages, 9th-12th grade
      MY THOUGHTS:
      At first, I enrolled all four children in their different age groups. So each one of them was using Gotrybe by themselves. This resulted in the use of our one laptop for most of the day dedicated to Gotrybe only. What I did, instead, is to just use Gotrybe under my account and have everyone working out together under Trybe180.
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      One of the motivations of Gotrybe for the children to keep on working out is the points system. For each day that they log in, watch the Nutrition, Motivation and Wellness segments, they gain points. The biggest points, of course, comes from doing the workouts. As they gain points, they can purchase clothes for their avatar. Sunshine Princess loved the workouts and loved gaining points for her avatar. It’s been fun for me watching my children enjoying the workouts.

      There are several certified trainors conducting the workouts and they are joined by children. I know that seeing the children in the video workout is an encouragement for my children to join in. When the children make mistakes, these are not edited out. This is good because my children are not pressured to make the moves perfect. They see the children in the video making mistakes and simply moving on, they follow suit.

      I also liked the daily dose of nutrition, motivation and wellness information. These are either short videos or short paragraphs meant for children to receive information in small doses.

      What I particularly liked about this program is that there are so many different workouts to choose from. You can either design your own workout or choose a Trybe workout.

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    Plus, I’ve tried working out with the children and I liked it, too! The best thing about this is the price, only $19.95 for a full year subscription.

    The only problem I’ve had with this is that, it takes about 5 – 10 minutes to load a video. Otherwise, the video will come out choppy.

    To have a look at how my other TOS Crewmates reviewed GoTrybe, check out our TOS Crew blog here.

    Disclosure: I received free subscription to GoTrybe as part of the TOS Homeschool Crew program in exchange for my review.

    Mother of Pearl: Each Life is Unique by Lucinda Secrest McDowell

    Welcome to Pearl Girls Mother of Pearl Mother's Day blog series. The series is week long celebration of moms and mothering. Each day will feature a new post by some of today's best writer's (Tricia Goyer, Megan Alexander, Suzanne Woods Fisher, Beth Engelman, Holley Gerth, Shellie Rushing Tomlinson, and more). I hope you'll join us each day for another unique perspective on Mother's Day.

    AND ... do enter the contest for a chance to win a beautiful hand crafted pearl necklace. To enter, just {CLICK THIS LINK} and fill out the short form. Contest runs 5/1-5/8 and the winner will on 5/11. Contest is only open to US and Canadian residents.

    If you are unfamiliar with Pearl Girls, please visit www.pearlgirls.info and see what we're all about. In short, we exist to support the work of charities that help women and children in the US and around the globe. Consider purchasing a copy of Pearl Girls: Encountering Grit, Experiencing Grace or one of the Pearl Girls products (all GREAT Mother's Day gifts!) to help support Pearl Girls.

    And to all you MOMS out there! Happy Mother's Day!

    Each Life is Unique by Lucinda Secrest McDowell

    “God’s divine power has given us everything we need for life and godliness through our knowledge of Him who called us by His own glory and goodness. II Peter 1.3 (NIV)

    Moms, God wants you to know that He has given you everything you need for life --- your unique life. He does not plan to give you what you might need to live the life of your best friend, or your neighbor, or even your favorite mother-model. No, God has called you to the life that He planned. I suspect that for most of us, it didn’t turn out to be the life we thought it might be… so long ago when we were young and dreaming of ‘growing up.’

    On Mother’s Day I often recall my own dreams to one day be a mother. I grew up playing with dolls and looking to my own Mama as a model for that particular role in life. However, by the time I reached my thirties I was still not a mother! God did, however, have a plan. It just wasn’t what I imagined.

    My own unique life would find me becoming a mother through the adoption of my first three children who were ages 9, 7 and 4; and then much later giving birth to our fourth child. Of course I was shocked when God revealed this to me, but I was ecstatic as well. It’s as though I could hear Him saying, “Well, you’re not getting any younger so I’m just going to just give you a jump start with three at one time!”

    A huge blessing! A huge adjustment! A joy and a struggle. Change is often like that, isn’t it? We finally get what we want then we have to deal with it. May I just offer a bit of advice if you just got a great answer to prayer, but perhaps not in the way or form you imagined? Just receive it. Embrace it. And be willing to move forward into a new paradigm for your life. So what if you’re not like all the other mothers you know? So what if you’re not like your own mother? So what if your family unit is different? I guarantee God has a plan.

    Not only did he want me to embrace my own story, but He called me as a mother to do perhaps one of the most important tasks of all --- to nurture my children to live their own unique lives. Not for me to try and squeeze them into what I hoped and dreamed they would be. Not for me to try and live my life through them. But to recognize how God made them, gifted them, and called them to their own special place.

    All of my 4 kids are different from one another. Let’s take sports, for instance: I have one child who wins gold medals in international tennis competition, one who is a born equestrian, another who competes nationally in obstacle course shooting matches, and yet another who manages to dance onstage in 3 inch heels, do cartwheels and splits while singing at the same time. Now, honestly, I do none of these things. And yet they do.

    I don’t remember placing my order with God for these things.  But I do remember when that tennis player turned 9 years old and I enrolled him in Special Olympics for the first time and how it changed his life… and ours. I remember getting a counselor job at an exclusive summer camp so that my daughter could take English riding classes. I remember being a Cub Scout leader (even though I knew nothing about boys) so that son could one day become an Eagle scout and pursue his love of the great outdoors. And yes, I remember enrolling my preschooler in dance lessons. Later when all the little girls were scared to go on stage for the recital, she exclaimed that she had endured a whole year of lessons just so she could go on stage.

    Don’t compare yourself to someone else. And don’t live vicariously through your favorite reality show star. Live your own story. And Moms, raise your kids to embrace the unique life God has for them.
    Remember, He has given us everything we need for life!

    Lucinda Secrest McDowell, a graduate of Gordon-Conwell Seminary, is the author of 10 books including “Role of a Lifetime,” “Amazed by Grace,” “Spa for the Soul” and the new Bible Study “Fit and Healthy Summer.” She is an international conference speaker and enjoys being a Pearl Girl from “Sunnyside” – her home in a New England village. Visit Cindy at www.EncouragingWords.net

    Mother of Pearl: What is a Grandmother? by Suzanne Woods Fisher

    Welcome to Pearl Girls Mother of Pearl Mother's Day blog series. The series is week long celebration of moms and mothering. Each day will feature a new post by some of today's best writer's (Tricia Goyer, Megan Alexander, Suzanne Woods Fisher, Beth Engelman, Holley Gerth, Shellie Rushing Tomlinson, and more). I hope you'll join us each day for another unique perspective on Mother's Day.

    AND ... do enter the contest for a chance to win a beautiful hand crafted pearl necklace. To enter, just {CLICK THIS LINK} and fill out the short form. Contest runs 5/1-5/8 and the winner will on 5/11. Contest is only open to US and Canadian residents.

    If you are unfamiliar with Pearl Girls, please visit www.pearlgirls.info and see what we're all about. In short, we exist to support the work of charities that help women and children in the US and around the globe. Consider purchasing a copy of Pearl Girls: Encountering Grit, Experiencing Grace or one of the Pearl Girls products (all GREAT Mother's Day gifts!) to help support Pearl Girls.

    And to all you MOMS out there! Happy Mother's Day!

    What is a Grandmother? by Suzanne Woods Fisher

    “A grandmother is a little bit parent, a little bit teacher, and a little bit best friend.”
     Amish proverb

    I arrived late in the night in Rhode Island, anxious to meet my two-day-old grandson, Blake, after a full day of flying. My daughter and son-in-law had just returned home from the hospital and felt like they had been in a train wreck. There was stuff everywhere.  Already, the needs of this little eight-pound bundle of joy were enormous: an all-terrain stroller, plenty of diapers, onesies, spit-up rags, an assortment of pacifiers to try out until he found the ideal one.

    And he was perfect.

    I know, I know. “Every mother crow thinks her own little crow is the blackest.” But this little dark eyed, dark haired boy really was perfect.

    I spent the next seven days (and nights) getting to know this little guy. His schedule (he had none), his hunger cries (very similar to his every other cry). His pirate look--one eye open, one eye squeezed shut, as if he was still surprised by all that had taken place to him in a week’s time.

    I felt surprised, too. How could my baby possibly have had a baby? How could I be a grandmother? I had just turned fifty-one. Shockingly young! How could a kid like me give up playing tennis three times a week to settle into knitting and crocheting and Friday night bingo? And shouldn’t I alter my appearance to fit this new label? Give up my jeans? Switch over to below knee-length calico dresses, thick black socks, practical shoes, gray hair pinned in a topknot. Think…Aunt Bee on Mayberry R.F.D.

    As soon as people knew my daughter was expecting, I was bombarded with advice from my well meaning friends—even those who weren’t yet grandparents. “The best way to avoid getting on the nerves of your daughter and son-in-law is to not say anything. Ever.” Or “You’d better pick your nickname or you’ll be stuck with something hideous, like MooMoo Cow.” 

    What should I be called? Granny? No…reminded me of The Beverly HillbWillies. Grandma? No…sounded like The Waltons. Grammy? No…it was already taken by the in-laws.

    But no one really explained what it meant to be a grandmother. I didn’t know myself, not until I held baby Blake in my arms. In that moment, I realized that he was one of mine. He belongs to me. He will be on my mind and in my prayers, every day, for the rest of my life. There’s a bond between us that can’t be broken. He has altered my life forevermore.

    I had become a grandmother. 

    Suzanne Woods Fisher is the bestselling author of The Choice, The Waiting, and The Search, as well as nonfiction books about the Amish, including Amish Peace. Her interest in the Anabaptist cultures can be directly traced to her grandfather, W. D. Benedict, who was raised in the Old Order German Baptist Brethren Church in Franklin County, Pennsylvania. Benedict eventually became publisher of Christianity Today magazine. Suzanne is the host of a radio show called Amish Wisdom and her work has appeared in many magazines. She lives in California. www.suzannewoodsfisher.com

    It is time for a FIRST Wild Card Tour book review! If you wish to join the FIRST blog alliance, just click the button. We are a group of reviewers who tour Christian books. A Wild Card post includes a brief bio of the author and a full chapter from each book toured. The reason it is called a FIRST Wild Card Tour is that you never know if the book will be fiction, non~fiction, for young, or for old...or for somewhere in between! Enjoy your free peek into the book!

    You never know when I might play a wild card on you!


    Today's Wild Card authors are:

    Dan and Ali Morrow

    and Illustrated by

    Cory Godbey


    and the book:

    David C. Cook (April 1, 2011)
    ***Special thanks to Audra Jennings, Senior Media Specialist, The B & B Media Group for sending me a review copy.***

    ABOUT THE AUTHORS:


    Dan and Ali Morrow are parents of two wonderful daughters. When they’re not writing children’s books, they like to go on adventures around their Colorado home. They are the authors of That’s Where God Is (2010), their first children’s release.

    Visit the authors' website.


    ABOUT THE ILLUSTRATOR:


    Cory Godbey illustrates, animates, and writes for Portland Studios, a creative firm dedicated to telling great stories and pursuing excellence in art.

    He has contributed to projects such as Zune Arts, Flight graphic novel anthologies, and has worked with many major publishers.

    Recently, Cory was accepted in the acclaimed Society of Illustrators Annual.

    Cory seeks to tell stories with his work.

    He also likes drawing monsters.

    Visit the illustrator'swebsite.


    SHORT BOOK DESCRIPTION:

    Targeted to children four to eight, That’s When I Talk to God mirrors the day of the typical child, creating an opportunity for readers to put the practices in the story to use in their own lives. Through beautiful illustrations and an engaging, familiar character, readers can relate to That’s When I Talk to God. Children will learn to go to God with their fears, their joys, their questions, and their desires. They will also learn the hows, whens, and whys of praying to the Lord in a way they can easily apply to their own experiences. And adults will be reminded to communicate the benefit, simplicity, and beauty of prayer.



    Product Details:

    List Price: $12.99
    Reading level: Ages 4-8
    Hardcover: 36 pages
    Publisher: David C. Cook (April 1, 2011)
    Language: English
    ISBN-10: 1434700186
    ISBN-13: 978-1434700186

    AND NOW...THE FIRST FEW PAGES (Click on the pictures to enlarge them!):







    MY THOUGHTS:

    Dan and Ali Morrow have created a beautiful book to teach children about praying to God. It shows different situations that children can get into and that any time is the right time to pray. This is a very gentle and effective way to teach our children that God is with them anywhere they go. And wherever they are, whatever time it is, it is also a good time to talk to God.

    Guitar Babe also commented on how beautiful the illustrations of Cory Godbey are. Reading through the book gives you the feeling that family relationships, especially those between mother and child, and that of God and his children is one of gentleness and care.

    This is a lovely, hard bound book that I highly recommend to parents to get for their family.

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