How To Teach Your Kids To Read - A Guest Post by Kylie Martinez

Children have much to learn. Most of this will be taught in school, but one place where parents can have a huge impact is teaching a child how to read. While reading is obviously taught in school, children benefit considerably if the foundations of reading are taught at home. Not every child is ready for independent reading at age 3, but there are many steps parents can take, even when children are still infants, that will help immensely later on.

1. Lay the Groundwork


Reading to children, even when they are very young, is important. Doing something as simple as following the words with their fingers will help a child grasp the concept that the words on the page are connected with the story that is being told. At first, a child will not understand why these two things are connected, but that curiosity will come soon enough. What's important at first is to develop that curiosity. Even toddlers will memorize the stories in their favorite books and parents might notice them "reading" to dolls and stuffed animals.

Learning the alphabet and phonetics are another important component. These lessons can also start very early, and should be fun. Singing the "Alphabet Song" and reading ABC books together will help them learn the sounds of the letters. Some parents invest in phonetics CDs or computer programs, but taking advantage of random teaching moments is often just as effective, if not more so. Learning to read should be fun and kids shouldn't feel like they are being grilled. This might bring a negative connotation to reading.  Pop quizzes while a child is doing something else, like eating lunch or playing with toys. Asking questions such as "What letter does dog start with?" or "What letter does blocks start with?" are good foundational questions. Keep quizzes short, and if a child starts to get frustrated, change the subject. Lessons, especially those with young children, don't have to be learned in one day.

2. Test the Waters

Once you sense that your child has a good grasp on letter sounds, begin to transition their reading skills to books. You can do this both by having them practice with books that consist primarily of short simple words or picking a few words to highlight in books they already know. If using the highlighting method, start with words under 5 letters long. As children watch the page for their words, they will begin to grasp some of the other words on their own. Learning to read in this manner makes the process more interactive and helps reinforce the bond you and your child share.
3. Have Fun - Don't Rush
The exact pace by which a child will learn to read will vary from child to child, so the most important part of the process is to have fun and let them go at their own pace. Learning to read is about more than phonetics. It involves learning to value words and stories, and of course, your time together.

Kylie Martinez likes to write about education, literature & www.flowerdelivery.net.

Thank you, Kylie Martinez, for this very informative article. I'm sure my readers will appreciate it. 

If you are looking for a book on teaching your child to read, please check out  TEACH YOUR CHILD TO READ IN 100 EASY LESSONS by Englemann, Haddox & Bruner.


Grammar Disasters and Punctuation Faux Pas

DESCRIPTION
Editor in Chief® Beginning 1 improves students’ grammar, punctuation, spelling, capitalization, and attention to detail using a standards-based thinking approach rather than drill and practice. This effective method teaches students to carefully analyze and edit stories. This book includes 16 lessons in grammar and mechanics. Students identify and circle errors in each story and write their correction. The grammatical and mechanical errors in the paragraphs are based on general instructional guidelines for specific grade levels; the content level, however, is ungraded, allowing usage of these materials at many instructional levels. Writing styles and content are varied to sustain interest and to broaden the students’ exposure to different writing formats, such as letters, stories, and dialogue. The illustrations integrated into the context of the activities further spark student interest. The skills developed can be applied to the students’ own writing. Detailed answers are also included.
Editor in Chief® Beginning 1 includes lessons and practice with the following concepts:
 Capitalization
  Punctuation
  An and A
  Verb Tenses
  Contractions
  Nouns and Pronouns
  Singular and Plural
  Am, Is, Are
  Me and I
  Subject/Verb Agreement
  Was and Were
  Run-On Sentences
  Sentence Fragments
  Good and Well
  Comparisons
  Homophones


MY REVIEW:

Editor In Chief Beginning 1 is unlike any language arts book that I've encountered so far. The concepts are taught very simply. The exercises are in the form of paragraphs, letters or stories with some grammatical mistakes. The students are instructed to find the mistakes and make the necessary correction. One of the nice things about this is that the students don't have to guess what kind of grammatical errors are there because it is indicated on the page plus the number of errors. I used it to review the concepts with my older children. Although it is for Grades 2 & 3, my young teenagers still found it challenging enough to keep their interest. The way the book is formatted is also very interesting. Beside each paragraph are images or pictures relating to the paragraph which stimulates their minds further. I did not have a hard time in using this to teach my children. It doesn't need a lot of prior preparation, just a quick run-through of the lesson before teaching is enough. The answer keys at the back of the book are invaluable for any teacher. I highly recommend this book for the homeschool family and even for students who might need more reinforcement in their language arts subject in schools. Another great book from The Critical Thinking Co.!

Disclosure of Material Connection: I received this book free from the publisher. I was not required to write a positive review. The opinions I have expressed are my own. I am disclosing this in accordance with the Federal Trade Commission's 16 CFR, Part 255. 

RENDEZVOUS: On The Runway Series 3 by Melody Carlson - Book Review



ABOUT THE BOOK:
Having learned some hard lessons about the costs of recklessness and fame, sisters Paige and Erin Forrester feel ready to take their fashion-focused TV show on location to Paris. Unfortunately, it doesn't take long for many of their good intentions to get lost in translation. An unplanned week of filming at runway model Eliza Wilton's family estate leads to romance, jealousy and surprises. With cameras rolling, both girls have to be careful or the future of On the Runway could end up as wobbly as Paige's stiletto heels.


MY REVIEW:
The On the Runway series is geared for the older teens and single women. Even though I am not in that segment any more, I still find Melody Carlson's books an entertaining read. Why shouldn't it be? It has many elements to it that make it fun.

First, the fashion - both girls are usually dressed in the latest fashions by big-name designers. Then there's the lifestyle - since they are hosts of their very own reality show On The Runway, travel to beautiful destinations is a part of their job. Imagine that, they are paid to go to places that only most of us can dream of. Then there's the light sibling rivalry - in all of this series, Paige's need to always be in the spotlight is always seen. When Erin starts to shine on her own, she can't seem to accept it, though the two sisters love each other very much. Erin usually lets her sister take her spotlight. Here in RENDEZVOUZ, though, she is at the point of coming to her own and won't let her sister take something that is of value to her. And of course, there are the boys. Paige finds herself at odds with another woman, a model, who is competing with her for the attention of a young male designer. Erin meets and dates a kind French guy in Paris, which makes her think more than twice about her relationship with Blake.

Of course, the most important element in this book is the Christian message. Erin is a Christian and in all of her daily activities, she finds time to read her Bible and pray to the Lord. She doesn't allow the glamour of her job or her environment to affect her. She remains firmly on the ground and is counted on by her show's producers to keep her sister in control. I'm not saying that Paige is a wild girl. In fact, she isn't. She can always be counted on to be act like a lady in times of extreme pressure. One of the issues talked about in Rendezvous is the reality of models becoming anorexic. Both Paige and Erin think that anorexia is unhealthy and models don't have to be stick thin to model clothes.

Again, as with all my other reviews of the On The Runway series, I believe that this a book worthy to be read by teen girls and single ladies. Erin provides a good example of Christian living for young ladies. While Paige may have some character flaws (so does Erin), it's still good to see how she has also worked out her issues.

Read my other reviews of this series:
PREMIERE
CATWALK
SPOTLIGHT 
GLAMOUR

Disclosure of Material Connection: I received one or more of the products or services mentioned above for free in the hope that I would mention it on my blog. Regardless, I only recommend products or services I use personally and believe will be good for my readers. I am disclosing this in accordance with the Federal Trade Commission's 16 CFR, Part 255: "Guides Concerning the Use of Endorsements and Testimonials in Advertising."

Pregnancy Updates

I haven't been writing blog posts lately.

Since I became pregnant, I found myself easily tired. No surprise there because a mother's body works harder when she's carrying a baby. I find myself unable to combine homeschooling, homemaking and working in a day.

BUT we are all very excited and looking forward to meeting this baby soon. By the way, this baby is a BOY! God answers prayers for sure! We just had a congenital anomaly scan a few days ago. The whole family came with me to have a peek of the baby. It was such a blessing to see him moving around, to see his little fingers open and close and to finally know that this baby is a he.

I'm due to give birth by mid-June so we are studying all through the summer days and taking a 2-1/2 months break when the baby comes.

There were a few complaints about this plan, but all in all, the kids are very cooperative.

Well, this is just an update. I'm overdue on a lot of book reviews!!! So back to reviewing I go! Online casino Ireland. ###

Thank You, God, for Blessing Me by Max Lucado - A Children's Book Review



Book Description:

Meet Little Hermie—the cutest baby caterpillar in the garden! Little Hermie’s thankful heart shows toddlers how to be thankful for God’s blessings.
Little Hermie is thankful for everything God has given him. He goes through his day thanking God for his many blessings in this adorable board book with flocking on the cover!
With over 5.5 million brands units sold, the new Little Hermie books open the wonderful world of the Hermie & Friends garden to an entirely new audience.
My Review:
Thank You, God, for Blessing Me by Max Lucado is an adorable, little hardbound book that is great for small children. Little Hermie is a caterpillar who knows how to appreciate everything around him. He thanks God every day for his many blessings like family, food, home and friends.
This book is a great way to teach children about prayer and being thankful for everything that surrounds him. I love that it teaches children to watch what is just naturally there and not to look for other material things. As the parent reads this aloud to the child, the parents will also be reminded to be grateful for things that they have. 



Disclosure of Material Connection: I received this book free from the publisher. I was not required to write a positive review. The opinions I have expressed are my own. I am disclosing this in accordance with the Federal Trade Commission's 16 CFR, Part 255.

Embraced by God by Babbie Mason - Book Review by Litfuse

This book is a journey of discovering what it means to be unconditionally loved, approved, accepted, forgiven, blessed, cherished, treasured, and favored by God. To celebrate the book's relesase, Babbie is giving away a Nook Tablet an hosting the "Embrace" FB party on 3/6/12. All the details below.

{More about Embraced by God}

Have you ever wondered, "Does God really love me? Do I really matter to him?"
HE LOVES YOU.
As a matter of fact, God loves you just as much as he loves His own Son.
In the pages of this heartwarming, thoughtful and life-affirming 21-day journey, award-winning gospel singer, songwriter, and teacher Babbie Mason reminds you, when you know you are loved by God and that you are in His eternal plan, you’ll never again wonder if your life matters.

{More about Babbie}
Babbie Mason is a Dove Award-winning and Grammy nominated gospel singer, songwriter, author, creator of the Embrace: A Worship Event for Women ministry, professor of songwriting at Atlanta Christian College and Lee University, and a television talk-show host. She was inducted into the Christian Music Hall of Fame in 2010 and has appeared on numerous national television and radio programs. Babbie has been honored perform for Presidents Gerald Ford, Jimmy Carter, George H. W. Bush, George W. Bush, Lady Margaret Thatcher, Colin Powell, Steve Forbes among many others. Babbie performs a holiday special at Carnegie Hall every year. Babbie lives near Atlanta on a farm with her husband Charles.

MY REVIEW:



Is this a devotional or a Bible study? For me, it's more of a journey, a 21-day journey into the loving heart of God our Heavenly Father. Unlike one-page devotionals, you read with your Bible, you will have to take the time each day to sit down, read and absorb the contents of this book. The author shares from her heart and life experiences. Because she is also a singer and songwriter, she shares some of her songs throughout the book. I can relate to this very much because I also like to sing songs of praise and worship to God whenever I have my times of personal worship.

I haven't finished this book just yet because it's not the kind of book that you just read through. I like to savor and meditate on what I've read about Jesus. What it's done so far is to reaffirm in me the truth about the love of God for His children. Embraced by God is a lovely book about the many facets of a loving God.

For other reviews, please go here.

"Disclosure of Material Connection: I received one or more of the products or services mentioned above for free in the hope that I would mention it on my blog. Regardless, I only recommend products or services I use personally and believe will be good for my readers. I am disclosing this in accordance with the Federal Trade Commision's 16 CFR, Part 255: "Guides Concerning the Use of Endorsements and Testimonials in Advertising."

Daily Treasures by Lorrie Flem - An Mp3 Review for The Gabby Moms

Many, many years ago, I saw one of my books inside the trash can in our bedroom. Thinking it may just have fallen from the table, I picked it out of the trash and thought nothing about it. The next day, I saw the same book in the trash again. I took it out of the trash can and placed it on the table beside it, again. On the third day, I looked in the trash and saw the book inside - yet again. So I asked my family who threw the book, a very young Guitar Babe spoke up and said "It's me, Mommy. It's old and smelly so I threw it away!"

One day when our two eldest girls, Guitar Babe and Artsy Princess were homeschooling, I caught Guitar Babe teaching Artsy Princess the answer to her test. "Hey, that's cheating", I pointed out. Guitar Babe, with a smile on her face said, "It's not cheating, Mom. It's called Teamwork." Hmmp!

Just last week, my teenaged niece came to visit us and stayed for a few days. One day, 4 year old Flash Boy came up to me, leaned his head on my shoulder, with a sweet smile, said "Mom, I like 'Aileen' very much. She's so beautiful."



The above are only a few of the sweet memories that I've treasured in my heart for many years. They are my Daily Treasures, as Lorrie Flem has pointed out. Daily Treasures, an audio or Mp3 download available at Lorrie Flem's Eternal Encouragement website, is an hour's worth of audio by Lorrie Flem. Recorded from an actual seminar given by Lorrie Flem, she talks about a mother's real treasure - her children. That there are moments when we will just have to choose to smile or find the humor in an otherwise stressful situation. She gives many ways for us to actually treasure those sweet and unforgettable moments like making a treasure box, or taking pictures and many more. 

I'm quite pleased with this audio because I find it came at such an appropriate time. I've been struggling lately about our choice to homeschool. We've been  homeschooling for the last ten years and living on a single income. With four children, money has been tight and we've been unable to give our children the opportunities for them to further develop their natural talents. We still don't own our home, have never bought a vehicle and hardly have any savings in the bank. Lately, I've been constantly thinking to myself and asking "Have I made the right choice?'

This blog's title is BEYOND THE SILVER AND THE GOLD. I thought of that title in reference to our children - that they are beyond any silver or gold that we can ever have on earth. They are truly our treasures that God has given to us. I'm glad that I listened to Lorrie Flem. She reinforced once again that our children are our Daily Treasures, that they are truly beyond any silver or any gold. Listening to Lorrie, I remembered once again all that our family has gained because I stayed home with our children. The joy of observing them grow up, the pleasure of watching them learn new things daily, the love and closeness we have with each other, made all of my sacrifices worth it. Thank you, Lorrie!

All photos courtesy of Louella Ricardo

Disclosure of Material Connection: I received one or more of the products or services mentioned above for free in the hope that I would mention it on my blog. Regardless, I only recommend products or services I use personally and believe will be good for my readers. I am disclosing this in accordance with the Federal Trade Commission's 16 CFR, Part 255: "Guides Concerning the Use of Endorsements and Testimonials in Advertising."

Saying Goodbye is Hard But...

Saying "Goodbye" hurts and we all know it. Whether we are bidding adieu to our spouses who are going off to work abroad, to family and friends who are transferring to a faraway place, or even to classmates who will soon be studying at another school, there is a finality in saying "Goodbye" that makes it seem unbearable. But if we learn to look forward to what lies ahead, the hopes and dreams soon to be realized, the "goodbye" will be bearable.

The hardest goodbye I've experienced so far was taking my husband to the airport so he can go off to work abroad. This happened to us three times. Gary D. went off to work in the USA in 1999 for one and a half years, then in 2008 for a year. He came back for three weeks when I gave birth to our son, then left again for a year. This goodbye was like death to me. It was so hard.

I've had members of my family and friends who migrate to live abroad. That was very hard too. When I was younger, it was very hard for me to let go, to accept things as they are. I remember a good friend of mine from church. Their whole family was leaving the city to minister at another place still within the city but too far away from us. As a consequence, they are also leaving our church. This friend of mine was like a mother to me, she discipled me and counselled me through my turbulent teen years. She was with me when I got married and had babies. So when it came time to say goodbye to her, I was bawling my eyes out. This wise woman told me, "Michelle, I know it hurts that we won't see each other as often as before. But you and the church will have to learn to release us. This will bless us in so many ways." I didn't understand this before and just kept on crying and mourning my "loss".

Some time ago, my niece and her whole family migrated to another faraway country. This was especially hard for all of us because we are very close. On the day they left, I went with her parents and in-laws to the airport.  There were so many tears at the airport from all of us, we kept saying our goodbyes, our last advices, hugging and assuring each other over and over, that we were backing up the line that was filing inside. Finally, they all turned around and started going inside the airport terminal.

As I watched them go, I realized that it may hurt for those of us left behind to see them go. But this family was leaving to finally realize their dreams of a better future. To continue to grieve for them would be a selfishness on my part. I had to let them go so that they, too, will be free to conquer their future. And letting them go is blessing them. The acceptance that they left for a better tomorrow blessed me too.

The best example we have is of Jesus telling his disciples that He will only be with them for a little while. Of course the disciples don't want to let Him go! Jesus assured them that he is leaving to do His Father's will but that they will see each other again. It hurt the disciples and His followers that Jesus died on the cross and left them, but they had no choice but to accept it. In the end, though Jesus may have died, He rose again after the third day and ascended to heaven. His death gave all of us freedom from eternal bondage. His goodbye was for our best.

So it may hurt to say our goodbyes to the people we love, but if their leaving will mean a better future for them, it will also bless them and us if we learn to let go.

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